It's amazing to me how plugged in the world and all my friends have become. Granted, the fact that I work at a technology company and live in San Francisco means that I'm surrounding myself with some of the most gadget-oriented hi-tech people on earth. But even so, isn't it absolutely amazing how quickly the interenet has become a staple of life? I did not have an email address until college, but kids are now growing up with wireless internet, cellphones, and PDA's. And not just kids, most of my friends have these gadgets that allow them to read their emails over the phone.......to be honest, I considered getting one for myself briefly. How scary.
Honestly, how connected to each other do we really need to be? I can't escape the feeling that it's got to be unhealthy to a certain degree. Disclaimer: I'm a loner, always have been. But even for folks who are more social, does it not bother you to be constantly 'on call' 27-7? I'm all for the freeflow of information and the equalizing of opportunity that the internet can often bring to those who otherwise would not have the resources or contacts to reach their dreams. I guess what annoys me is the expectations that these items bring.
For example, what's the deal with people who assume that if I don't pick up my cellphone that it's rude, or that it's inconsiderate to have my cellphone turned off?? WTF? I reserve the right to turn off my cellphone whenever I don't feel like being disturbed, even if I'm alone. Here's another one:
My Friend: "Just give me a call later"
Me: "Okay. What's your number?"
My Friend: "You don't have it?"
Me: "You never gave it to me."
My Friend: "But I called you a couple of weeks ago."
Me: "So?"
My Friend: "Didn't your phone pick up my number?"
Me: "I don't know, I didn't check. Am I supposed to program in all incoming calls to my phone?"
My Friend: "You moron."
Now really, there's no way that I'm going to assume I have the right to program someone in my cellphone and call them anytime unless I get their explicit permission. Aargh.
Honestly, how connected to each other do we really need to be? I can't escape the feeling that it's got to be unhealthy to a certain degree. Disclaimer: I'm a loner, always have been. But even for folks who are more social, does it not bother you to be constantly 'on call' 27-7? I'm all for the freeflow of information and the equalizing of opportunity that the internet can often bring to those who otherwise would not have the resources or contacts to reach their dreams. I guess what annoys me is the expectations that these items bring.
For example, what's the deal with people who assume that if I don't pick up my cellphone that it's rude, or that it's inconsiderate to have my cellphone turned off?? WTF? I reserve the right to turn off my cellphone whenever I don't feel like being disturbed, even if I'm alone. Here's another one:
My Friend: "Just give me a call later"
Me: "Okay. What's your number?"
My Friend: "You don't have it?"
Me: "You never gave it to me."
My Friend: "But I called you a couple of weeks ago."
Me: "So?"
My Friend: "Didn't your phone pick up my number?"
Me: "I don't know, I didn't check. Am I supposed to program in all incoming calls to my phone?"
My Friend: "You moron."
Now really, there's no way that I'm going to assume I have the right to program someone in my cellphone and call them anytime unless I get their explicit permission. Aargh.
